After looking at the product spec again I think it might be possible to get this working. The protocol is MSB with a start bit S followed by two bit op-code, and parameters. SPI on AVR is 8-bit transfer but transfer can be byte aligned with the start bit.
READ is op-code(10) followed by 7-bit address, a dummy bit and the read value. That is in total 1011+8-bits. Mapping that to 8-bit transfer would be (addr is 7-bits, MSB must be zero):
spi.transfer(0b110b110);
spi.transfer(addr << 1);
data = spi.transfer(0);
That will give 65-bit zero, start-bit, MSB of op-code in the first transfer, and LSB of op-code followed by 7-bit address and dummy bit (LSB) in second transfer. The third transfer is the read data.
EWEN would map to:
spi.transfer(0b1001);
spi.transfer(0b10000000);
EWEN has op-code(00), followed by 9-bits, 0b11XXXXXXX.
The WRITE operation becomes:
spi.transfer(0b10);
spi.transfer(0x80 | addr);
spi.transfer(data);
Cheers!