Refactor the handling of the various DropStmt variants so that when multiple

Refactor the handling of the various DropStmt variants so that when multiple
objects are specified, we drop them all in a single performMultipleDeletions
call.  This makes the RESTRICT/CASCADE checks more relaxed: it's not counted
as a cascade if one of the later objects has a dependency on an earlier one.
NOTICE messages about such cases go away, too.

In passing, fix the permissions check for DROP CONVERSION, which for some
reason was never made role-aware, and omitted the namespace-owner exemption
too.

Alex Hunsaker, with further fiddling by me.