Actually i don't think so magento give default functionality to drop down select month, but you can archive this by custom way
Step 1 : add below code in your UI Component file
<column name="months">
<argument name="data" xsi:type="array">
<item name="options" xsi:type="object">Namespace\Your_Module\Model\Source\Months</item>
<item name="config" xsi:type="array">
<item name="filter" xsi:type="string">select</item>
<item name="component" xsi:type="string">Magento_Ui/js/grid/columns/select</item>
<item name="editor" xsi:type="string">select</item>
<item name="dataType" xsi:type="string">select</item>
<item name="label" xsi:type="string" translate="true">Months</item>
<item name="sortOrder" xsi:type="number">60</item>
</item>
</argument>
Step 2 : Create a source model under
Namespace\Your_Module\Model\Source
Months.php
<?php
namespace Namespace\ModuleName\Model\Source;
use Magento\Framework\Data\OptionSourceInterface;
/**
* Class Status
*/
class Months implements OptionSourceInterface
{
/**
* Get the options
*
* @return array
*/
public function toOptionArray()
{
return [
['label' => __('January'), 'value' => '0'],
['label' => __('February'), 'value' => '1'],
['label' => __('March'), 'value' => '2'],
['label' => __('April'), 'value' => '3'],
['label' => __('May'), 'value' => '4'],
['label' => __('June'), 'value' => '5'],
['label' => __('July'), 'value' => '6'],
['label' => __('August'), 'value' => '7'],
['label' => __('September'), 'value' => '8'],
['label' => __('October'), 'value' => '9'],
['label' => __('November'), 'value' => '10'],
['label' => __('December'), 'value' => '11']
];
}
}