The missing part is the type definition in the modify statement. With MODIFY you redefine the column, thus you need to give the new type as well. But in case you only modify that it can be null, no data will be lost.
Create referenced table and filling it :
mysql> -- Creating referenced table
mysql> create table `tUser` (
-> `id` int auto_increment not null,
-> `name` varchar(16),
-> primary key (`id`)
-> );
Query OK, 0 rows affected (0.07 sec)
mysql> -- Filling and checking referenced table
mysql> insert into `tUser` (`name`) values ("Jane"), ("John");
Query OK, 2 rows affected (0.04 sec)
Records: 2 Duplicates: 0 Warnings: 0
mysql> select * from `tUser`;
+----+------+
| id | name |
+----+------+
| 1 | Jane |
| 2 | John |
+----+------+
2 rows in set (0.07 sec)
mysql> -- Creating referencing table
mysql> create table `tHoliday` (
-> `id` int auto_increment not null,
-> `userId` int,
-> `date` date,
-> primary key (`id`),
-> foreign key (`userId`) references `tUser` (`id`)
-> );
Query OK, 0 rows affected (0.14 sec)
mysql> -- Filling and checking referencing table
mysql> insert into `tHoliday` (`userId`, `date`) values
-> (1, "2014-11-10"),
-> (1, "2014-11-13"),
-> (2, "2014-10-10"),
-> (2, "2014-12-10");
Query OK, 4 rows affected (0.08 sec)
Records: 4 Duplicates: 0 Warnings: 0
mysql> select * from `tHoliday`;
+----+--------+------------+
| id | userId | date |
+----+--------+------------+
| 1 | 1 | 2014-11-10 |
| 2 | 1 | 2014-11-13 |
| 3 | 2 | 2014-10-10 |
| 4 | 2 | 2014-12-10 |
+----+--------+------------+
4 rows in set (0.05 sec)
mysql> -- Updating foreign key column to allow NULL
mysql> alter table `tHoliday` modify `userId` int null;
Query OK, 0 rows affected (0.08 sec)
Records: 0 Duplicates: 0 Warnings: 0
mysql> -- Inserting line without foreign key
mysql> insert into `tHoliday` (`date`) values ("2014-11-15");
Query OK, 1 row affected (0.06 sec)
mysql> select * from `tHoliday`;
+----+--------+------------+
| id | userId | date |
+----+--------+------------+
| 1 | 1 | 2014-11-10 |
| 2 | 1 | 2014-11-13 |
| 3 | 2 | 2014-10-10 |
| 4 | 2 | 2014-12-10 |
| 5 | NULL | 2014-11-15 |
+----+--------+------------+
5 rows in set (0.03 sec)
ALTERcommand that you've tried and got the syntax error. Also the exact schema would be useful otherwise, have a look at the docs: dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.1/en/alter-table.htmlALTER TABLE t1 MODIFY fk_column_id NULL;@fejese