i have an array of items:
$expiringDomains = array('dom1.com', 'dom2.com');
how can i run an update on my table to update all rows where the domain in the table is NOT in the array
$sql = $mysqli->query("UPDATE FROM customer_domains set reminder1 = '', reminder2 = '', reminder3 = '' WHERE domain = '';");
i know i could do a PHP loop through the array but i want it to run as quick as possible - the array could get up to 20,000 items or more
where domain NOT IN ('dom1', 'dom2')