The syntax ...
struct process {int PID;int myMemory[];};
... is not valid C++, but it may be accepted by some compilers as a language extension. In particular, as I recall g++ accepts it. It's in support for the C "struct hack", which is unnecessary in C++.
In C++, if you want a variable length array in a struct, use std::vector or some other array-like class, like
#include <vector>
struct Process
{
int pid;
std::vector<int> memory;
};
By the way, it's a good idea to reserve use of UPPERCASE IDENTIFIERS for macros, so as to reduce the probability of name collisions with macros, and not make people reading the code deaf (it's shouting).
Cheers & hth.,