this is ultimately frustrating, because it was working on the development site, but after moving it to the live site, it stopped working. :S
$('.menu_btn').click(function(e) {
//rel is used to tell me what html page to load
var url = $(this).attr('rel');
//load the new page into the div
$('#ajax_wrapper').load(url);
});
the even more frustrating thing is, when i hard code the value of url in:
var url = 'http://www.example.com/pages/home.html'
it works without problems.
adding an alert(url) gives me the correct rel address.