if you want to search in a varchar then use LIKE this would help you in using expressions. For instance, in your case phone_column = '() -' would be phone_column LIKE '() -%' this will match any string that begins with () -. if you do phone_column = '() -' then it will only match the exact same string.
Any how, I'm not sure why you want to take this road, while you can validate the current numbers and try to only store the valid ones, as storing invalid numbers would be useless.
I'll give you an example,
to validate phone numbers, you first take out any existed formats (parentheses, dashes, spaces) then you'll be end up with a whole number with 10 or 7 digits. depends on your way of storing phone numbers. any numbers less than that would be invalid.
To remove the formats :
SELECT REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(Number,'(',''),')',''),'-',''),' ','')
Now you will have only numbers, which will be easier to handle.
Like this :
SELECT
phone_column
FROM (SELECT REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(phone_column,'(',''),')',''),'-',''),' ','') phone_column FROM client_table) D
PS : Some countries phone numbers begins with 0, if your numbers don't
begin with 0, then you would cast the number to BIGINT, which will
remove any leading zeros.
Now, you can use the case to validate the numbers and do whatever you like with them.
SELECT
CASE
WHEN LEN(phone_column) = 10
THEN '(' + SUBSTRING(phone_column,1,3) + ') ' + SUBSTRING(phone_column, 3,3) + '-' + SUBSTRING(phone_column, 6,4)
ELSE '(000) 000-0000'
END Phone
FROM (SELECT REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(phone_column,'(',''),')',''),'-',''),' ','') phone_column FROM client_table) D