i am trying to write a program but i have no idea what to with parsing a date in this format into into a date stamp
Jan 15 2005 12:00AM
i do not care about the 12:00AM as all the records have that 12:00AM appended to them.
Use strtotime() to convert the date to unix timestamp. You can also use this timestamp with date() function to format it in any way you want.
A newer way to do this as of PHP 5.2 is to use the DateTime class:
$datetime = new DateTime("Jan 15 2005 12:00AM");
echo $datetime->format('Y-m-d');