Weird thread NullReferenceException when reading value that exists?

I have an incredibly weird NullReferenceException being thrown when reading a value from a public Field on an object which I know exists. The basic flow is this:

Edit: I realized I forgot to mention something important, this does not happen every time I try to read the Tag value, but only somtimes, enough that I can reproduce it every time by just running the code, but not instantly when the code runs

• Server receives a message (Worker thread)
• The connection that sent the message get gets set as the Tag field on the message object (Worker thread)
• The message gets put in a "ReceivedMessages" queue (a normal Queue object which is guarded by locks for serialized access) (Worker thread)
• The message gets read (Main Thread)
• I try to read the Tag field of the message to get the connection, this sometimes returns null and throws an exception, but when the exception gets thrown and I inspect the Message object I can see the Connection object (which is the object that is in the Tag field) there clear as day (Main Thread)

If you look at this picture, you will see it clear as day:

You can see where I marked with the green box, I try to read the message.Tag property in three different ways, they all return null as you can see in the part marked with a blue box.

However, if you look at the two areas marked as red, you can see clear as day that the object actually exists. And, just to clear out any confusion, the part where the message gets put on the received messages queue look like this:

I as you can see I even tried doing a Thread.VolatileWrite to make sure the value gets written

message.Tag = buffer.Tag;

Thread.VolatileWrite(ref message.Tag, buffer.Tag);

if (message.Tag == null)
{
    isNullLog.Add(message.Id);
}

// Queue into received messages
lock (peer.ReceivedMessages)
{
    peer.ReceivedMessages.Enqueue(message);
}

The snippet above is all happening in the worker thread, and as you can see I copy the buffer.Tag over to message.Tag, I even setup a little runtime check for debugging which checks the message.Tag for a null value and add it's id to a list called "isNullLog" if so is the case. When the NullReferenceException gets thrown in the main thread, this list is empty.

You also see that i lock the peer.ReceivedMessages queue and push the message to the queue after i have set the message.Tag field.

Also, to be even more clear here is the function that is used to read a message out from the peer.ReceivedMessages queue:

public bool TryGetMessage(out TIncomingMessage message)
{
    lock (ReceivedMessages)
    {
        if (ReceivedMessages.Count > 0)
        {
            message = ReceivedMessages.Dequeue();
            return true;
        }
    }

    ReceivedMessageEvent.Reset();

    message = null;
    return false;
}

You can see that I lock the queue even before I check the count, and if it not is empty I set the out property and return true, otherwise I return false.

Honestly I am completely stumped, written several multi-threaded applications before and have never encountered this.

A bit of an update, I have also tried marking the Tag field as volatile, making it look like this public volatile object Tag; but this seems not to be helping.